“Too good to be true”

The worst pick-up line I have ever heard is not the corny ones that everyone already knows, So in return turns into a joke. The worst ”pick-up line” is when a man or woman figures out your strengths and weaknesses and uses them to take control over you, a young and vulnerable me once believed these lies as a little girl… if you do this, this will be the outcome. Damn it sounds great, in fact it sounds like a dream and suddenly you are on cloud 9, Until cloud 9 decides that its going to down pour – drowned you while you’re left wondering what happen to the sun. I am not saying every one has ill intentions, but be aware. Some of the things that sound ”too good to be true” are. It took me a very long time to know the difference. I could be at a slot machine with all the lights blinking red saying I hit the jackpot yet still standing there not getting my hopes up because that seems ”too good to be true” prime example on how life as well as people can disappoint you to that degree. Secondly, never point out your strengths to me acting as if they are going to save my weaknesses, they’re not. Just like my strengths will never save yours. Only we have the power and control to better ourselves, as the opposing partner it is not your job to pry, but to partake. Partake in encouraging the potential in this person that you so obviously crave for yourself, otherwise you would never involve yourself this deeply in the first place. This goes for women as well as men. Guilty is guilty. We were not built to endure any kind of abuse from those who claim to “love” us. Somehow we confuse love with other things. Thank god I have come to know the difference. I wish I never had to deal with so many forms of this. I am still optimistic that one day I will see a pure soul I can fully trust, and in return give them my trust. These walls were not always here they were built. They were structured overtime by the people I am warning you about. So no I am not stone cold, or ”picky” I am healing and growing and wiser than ever. I am sorry if you have not heard from me, maybe I have decided you were ”too good to be true” or maybe I just knew you weren’t. Love, The Thriver/still always a survivor.

Published by Angelina Grello

I am a woman with a voice. I am 27 years old with the mindset of a woman double my age seemingly because I had to grow up fast. I love nature & the beauty of life, but the world has corrupted me into constantly facing fight or flight anxiety attacks and pushing through the impossible with solutions and thoughts that are meant to be heard. I like the color black but it’s deceiving because the world assumes I love pink. I enjoy traveling, going to church, dancing, and interacting with my children. I take my friendships seriously and I am a firm believer that blood is not always thicker than water - I’m a Leo & if you’re into zodiac signs even just a little you will be fond of my post. I love hard and live harder. I may stand out because I’m not here to advertise anything except my thoughts and solutions that have gotten me thus far. I hope my blog brings my audience a new way of hope and a new way of clarity and thinking outside of the box isn't always a bad thing. We all have a gift. We all have something to share with the world, lets be heard together. Love, Ang

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  1. I love reading all of these on my downtime it helps me understand a different side of people that I am not to educated on. This helps me be a better person to help those in need keep up the good work I k ow you had it in you to make thia happen may god bless you with so much more I your future. Signing off as your best friend forever.

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